Are MA traffic stops that end without any action recorded? Do they show up on background checks?

OK, so here’s what went down. I answered a personal from a 24-year old woman (I’m 20). She liked my response but wanted me to know that she has muscle spasms due to a disease and that I shouldn’t be horrified.

She told me that she had a private apartment attached to an assisted living facility just so that medical care would be nearby (she can’t drive). She had internet, AIM, email, phone, etc. She posted several photos on the web.
So I picked her up right in front of her place. Nothing happened.
Zero connection! So I drove her back to her building, let her out of the car in front of some police (thinking nothing of it). Suddenly these cops are swarming my car. I’m like “what did I do wrong?” They tell me that she’s not allowed to leave the premises because of some mental condition (she never told me). So they keep me waiting (“kidnapping”) and then let me go, telling me that I’ll be arrested if I come back.

I was conned by this girl. Is this ever going to surface?
I’m not sure what they considered it. The officers certainly didn’t charge me with anything! But they did seem rather unhappy, which I could hardly blame them for being.

The odd thing is that the cops never talked to me in the 45+ minutes I sat in my car. I motioned to them behind me that I wanted to talk (I had printed out our AIM conversation setting up the date because I needed the address), but they ignored me. The cop told me to “leave women alone!”… Ah, I got conned by this psychopath!

“Kidnapping” sounds a little unprovable. She placed an ad, called me back, gave me a false story, planned the entire charade, told me where to meet her, walked to my car, got in, was gone for an hour, and I brought her back — in front of the cops. Great “kidnap” plan! I’m not exactly a predator, but they treated me like one — never mind that SHE planned every aspect of her “kidnap” and solicited ME to meet! I relied on HER statements from the start. My only crime was being naive.
I just talked to one of my police friends in another state and he was floored by how this was handled. He was like, this place lets psychopaths have 24/7 internet access, lets them walk out the front door, and then the cop blames me? The cop said that she constantly escaped and posed as someone else, but I should have “known better”. He wondered why the cop held it against me that a completely rational-sounding, convincing, person with a history of this thing was allowed to use the internet, escaped, and conned me into a joyride.

Is this stupid to get a traffic ticket for?

My parents have to go to court tomorrow for this witch I think is stupid, Here is the situation, around last year, in the start of November 5th I think it was, we where pulling out of the parking lot in Giants, and we wanted to go out, and we did, So when you pull out of the shopping center, it’s like a stop light, and we where behind this SUV van, and a lady was standing there with her baby, we thought they where just talking, cause you know how people ask for directions, but later we found out there was a wreck, because the car was little in front of the big SUV car, so, the cop did not have his lights on, he was parked two streets away, he was kinda of a prick, and we did not know so my dad beeped the horn, for the lady to move so we can turn around, and then the cop comes running to the car, and said hey you don’t beep the horn there is a wreck here, so snobby sounding, my mom never got into trouble before with tickets, at all, and he was just screaming like a maniac, he was a young guy to, and then he gave us a ticket for blowing the on for non sense, well we thought the lady was just talking we did not see there was a wreck to my mom talked to the lady, and then the cop made us wait there for like few longer minutes everyone thought was where broke down.

Then when the copy was behind us, he turned his lights on and finally after the last minute, but the thing is though, What do you think of that?

We just wanted the lady holding the baby to move out the way, and we did not see fully what was going on, and also, my mom did not want to sign a ticket unless there was another officer out there, so we called one out and then he writes us another ticket saying refuesed to sign ticket, I think that was dumb, my mom was worried about it the entire time, and then my parents have a court date tomorrow, what do you think and my mom went on the internet and there aint no law for blowing the on,
jeez sorry for the mistake in spelling no one is perfect, but yes this is all that happen my mom did sign the tickets, and that was all.
he was just out of control.

Should my fiance contest his traffic ticket?

My fiance slipped on a back road during the night of a sudden and terrible snow storm and drove his car into a ditch. The cops were called and he received a ticket for failure to maintain reasonable control ($168.) The roads were not plowed, salted, or maintained in any way. He was going 15 miles an hour and still slipped into the ditch. The cop that gave him a ticket told him to contest it. But I think its a damn stupid idea. Because he will not only have to pay the ticket, but he will have to pay court fees AND get publicly humiliated buy the judge. I say, he should just pay the ticket, take his lumps, and get on with his life. What do you think, Internet? Should he chance it? Or should he just pay the ticket and be done with it?

Has technology really benefited Americans as a whole or is it our demise?

Thinking about our unemployment in America, and I thought of the millions of jobs eliminated by computers. Seriously, not as many paprer shufflers (sort of speak) in offices. Robots in manufacturing REDUCING thousands of jobs. Video cams reducing the need for traffic cops. Hi-tech garbage trucks reducing the need for man power. Even the internet taking its toll on the newspaper industry. I realize it has created jobs also, but I believe it has eliminated for MORE jobs than it created. Blue collar workers are becoming closer to extinction than the polar bear. Is technology going to be American’s demise?
Good point polar bear. As unbelievable as this sounds, I read a book-”future shock” 40 years ago. It predicted that jobs like yours, garbage pick-up,plumbers,electiricians,truck drivers,etc. will be some of the highest paid jobs in America by 2020. It is amazing that this book written 40 yrs ago, has been so accurate to date.

‘You can have it all if you want it, you can have it all if you want it so much’ – who sings this song?

I’ve just watched Traffic Cops’ and one of the guys that was arrested was singing this song. Then the programme played the real song by the real singers, as background music.

I’ve searched the internet and can not find the song. It had a really good melody and I want to buy it!

The chorus seems to go:
‘You can have it all if you want it
You can have it all if you want it so much
You can have it all if you want it
You can have it all if you want it so much…’etc

Does anyone know what this song is and who sings it??